Episode 16

Choosing Motherhood as a Single Orthodox Woman (Ellie Levi)

Published on: 10th November, 2024

Ellie Levi is an Orthodox Jewish woman who chose to become a single mother. In this episode, she and Matana discuss the journey and challenges of single motherhood, including the stigma around the term "single mom by choice" and the various paths women take to reach this decision.

Ellie shares her personal experience with egg freezing and fertility treatments, highlighting the importance of a supportive network during the emotional ups and downs of the process. She reflects on her family's reactions and the halachic complexities, urging women to pursue their dreams without seeking others’ permission.

Chapters:

02:16 Understanding Single Motherhood

11:32 The Journey of Egg Freezing

12:14 Navigating Fertility Treatments

16:35 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Motherhood

30:25 Coping with Societal Expectations

36.42 The Halachic Perspective on Single Motherhood

44:27 The Selfless Act of Motherhood

46:14 Navigating Reactions to Single Motherhood

49:38 Overcoming Naysayers and Embracing Support

57:38 The Complex Relationship with God

01:07:44 Fertility Organizations and Their Limitations

01:21:34 Reflections on Regrets and Surprises in the Journey

Connect with Ellie:

ellie.levi@gmail.com

Resources:

Single Mothers By Choice

Orthodox Jewish Single Moms by Choice

IVF/IUI Single Moms By Choice

https://www.singlemothersbychoice.org/


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